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Family

 
Our family lawyers have an excellent reputation in family law. In this area in particular since it can be vary traumatic and emotional for our clients, we feel it is extremely important to offer a professional, prompt and sympathetic service with a non adversarial but firm approach.

We deal with all family matters including:
  • Divorce
  • Nuptial agreements
  • Separation
  • Children matters
  • Financial/ property disputes for both married and unmarried couples
  • Domestic violence
  • Civil Partnerships
     
Family - Divorce and separation
 

In order to get a Divorce at present, the person who wants the Divorce the ‘Petitioner’ must prove that the marriage has ‘irretrievably broken down’. To prove this, the Petitioner must prove one of five grounds:-

  • 1. That their husband or wife has committed adultery.
  • 2. Unreasonable behaviour.
  • 3. Desertion for a period of 2 years.
  • 4. separation for a period of 2 years with both parties consent.
  • 5. separation for a period of 5 years

Provided that the Divorce is uncontested it is a relatively straightforward procedure with no need for the parties to attend Court. However, if the husband or wife opposes the Divorce, a Court hearing may be necessary.Once the Petition has been issued and the husband and wife have consented to the Divorce taking place, the Petitioner can apply for the Decree Nisi. This is the first stage in the Divorce process. Six weeks later, the Petitioner can apply to the Court for the Decree Absolute which is the final step.

It should be noted that the Divorce procedure is totally separate from anything to do with the finances relating to the marriage and the children.

Divorce is not the only way to deal with a marriage that has broken down and there are several reasons why couples may want to separate rather than obtaining a divorce such as:-

  • There may be religious or moral objections to divorce.
  • The marriage may not be considered to be irretrievable and the couple may want simply to have a trial separation.
  • The couples made plans to divorce after 2 years - this requires a period of 2 years separation.
  • The marriage may be less than 12 months old so an immediate Divorce is not a possibility.
   
Family - Nuptial Agreements
It is possible to have both pre-nuptial and mid-nuptial agreements.

Pre-nuptial agreements are not yet officially accepted under English law and may not be upheld by the English Courts in the event of a Dispute, particularly where children have been born after the nuptial agreement. However on any marriage breakdown, pre-nuptial agreements are one of the factors that the Court will have to take into account in deciding what financial arrangements are to be made between the husband and the wife. It is important however on any nuptial agreement that both husband and wife receive independent legal advice. A solicitor cannot act for both husband and wife jointly.
 
Family - Children  
  When relationships break down it is important to consider what is best for the children to ensure that they do not suffer unduly. If possible, parents should attempt to agree the care of the children particularly with regard to which parent the children will live with and the contact with the other parent
 
 
Family - Parental Responsibility

This is a precise legal term introduced by the Children Act 1989.

The parent or parents with parental responsibility have certain duties towards the child and they make fundamental decisions in respect of the child’s life.

If the parents of the child are married, both the mother and the father automatically have parental responsibility.This may not be the case if the father and mother are not married. After December 2003 an unmarried father will have parental responsibility if he is on the child’s birth certificate.

Even if one of the parents does not have parental responsibility, he can have parental responsibility with the agreement of the mother or alternatively obtain it by way of Court Order.

In a Divorce, the Court will generally leave the arrangements concerning the children up to the Divorcing couple. It is only if no agreement can be reached that one of the parties may need to apply for one of the Orders under the Children Act 1989.

Residence Order

This is an Order for the child or children to live with one or other parent. It is becoming increasingly common to have Joint Residence Orders.

Contact Order

This is an Order requiring the person with whom the child or children lives, to allow the children to have contact with the other parent.

If the parent with care is concerned about how the contact parent may behave and convinces the Court of this, the Court may attach conditions to the Order. There are many types of Contact Order that can be obtained from ‘staying’ contact down to only ‘postal’ contact

Prohibited Steps Order

In short, this Order means a parent cannot do something without the Court’s approval, for example taking the child abroad.

Specific Issue Order

As the name indicates, this is an Order determining a specific issue or problem which has arisen or which may arise in connection with any aspect of parental responsibility.Any Application for any of the above Orders can be made by any parent or guardian of the child including the unmarried father of the child and anybody who had a Residence Order.

Family – unmarried couples

The law relating to unmarried couples is completely different from the law surrounding married couples. Co-habitees have more limited rights than married couples for example, a co-habitee does not have any right to maintenance for himself or herself but only for the benefit of any children.There are also limited circumstances in which a Lump Sum Order can be obtained.

It is likely that this area of law will be changing in the not too distant future.

 
     
Family - Financial and Property Disputes – Divorce
 

Financial settlement on Divorce can be complicated. Often on Divorce the parties have been married for some years and the assets of the parties have been built up together. Each party feels entitled to a share of those assets.

The question then arises ‘how much?’.

People can decide between themselves what they would be happy with and this is by far the best way to arrange matters because it reduces acrimony and reduces the legal costs. It enables the couple to deal with matters as they want.If the matter went to a Court, a ruling might be given that does not suit either party.

If the parties can decide for themselves what they want or it can be negotiated between solicitors, the agreement can be drawn up into a ‘Consent Order’ which will be sealed by the Court and will generally prevent any future claims against each other unless there is a Maintenance Order in favour of one of the parties in which case either party can go back at a subsequent date to vary the maintenance part of the Order.

If the matter has to go to Court the Court will decide what the appropriate Order is and it has to take into account the provisions of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973.

There are various factors that the Court must take into account as follows:-

  • Income, earning capacity, property and other financial resources which each of the parties of the marriage has or is likely to have in the foreseeable future.
  • Any increase in that capacity which it would in the opinion of the Court be reasonable to expect the parties of the marriage to take steps to acquire. So a Court cannot look only at the actual earnings but also what a party can be expected to earn in the future.
  • Financial needs, obligations and responsibilities which each of the parties has or is likely to have in the foreseeable future.
  • The standard of living enjoyed by the family before the breakdown of the marriage.
  • The age of each party to the marriage.
  • Duration of the marriage.
  • Physical or mental disability of either of the parties to the marriage.
  • The contributions which each of the parties has made or is likely to make to the family.
  • The conduct of the parties. Only in very exceptional circumstances will this ground be relevant.
  • The value to each of the parties to the marriage of any benefit which, by reason of the dissolution or annulment of the marriage, that party will lose. This most frequently relates to the loss of pension rights

     
         
    Family – unmarried couples
    The law relating to unmarried couples is completely different from the law surrounding married couples. Co-habitees have more limited rights than married couples for example, a co-habitee does not have any right to maintenance for himself or herself but only for the benefit of any children.

    There are also limited circumstances in which a Lump Sum Order can be obtained.

    It is likely that this area of law will be changing in the not too distant future.
    Civil Partnerships  

    The law is changing in relation to the rights of same sex cohabitants. The new Civil Partnership Act 2004 is likely to come into force in late 2005 which will mean that same sex cohabitants will be able to register as civil partners in order to obtain legal recognition of their relationship. The Act enables same sex couples to acquire many of the legal rights and benefits currently enjoyed by married couples.

     
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